I can say that I am a VERY picky date. I have very high expectations for myself and my actions, and I hold others to the same standards! Although I do not necessarily demand perfection (because lets face it, no one is perfect) I DO look for a few characteristics which are quite non-negotiable in a woman's character. SO here they are in no particular order!
1. Goal Oriented/ High Life Expectations
One thing that I find VERY attractive is when a woman has goals for her future life and plans to get there. Although life has its blind corners, I think it is very important to have a vision of what you want.
2. Hard-Working
I am the kind of person who will spend 12 hours per day working or doing other work-related activities (studying products, working on personal plans, etc.) and I like to be with someone who is willing to put in what it takes to be the best at what they do. Slacking is VERY unattractive to me, in pretty much any form.
3. Family Oriented
This is very much future based, but nothing is more attractive than a woman who appreciates family, is close with her family and understands the importance of having a family in their life. Again, sometimes these things are out of their control but it is just a very valuable commodity which seems quite common these days.
4. Common Sense of Courtesy
This is quite literally as simple as it sounds. If you are dating me, I don't want you to disappear for days on end with no word... going AWOL at random and then popping back up days later. I don't think it is THAT demanding to ask for a "hey, I'm going to be gone for a couple days without my phone... talk to you when I get back!" But if all of a sudden you don't answer me for a couple of days and then come back like nothing has changed? No thanks. Do what you want, but I'd rather not think that you have been abducted for a few days. (And yes, I have witnessed this!)
5. Open
I am a natural psychological thinker and I can tell when something is wrong, and I can often help people work through it. It seems like it is part of the female psyche to lock things away and act like there is nothing wrong... believe it or not guys are (usually) not brainless/emotionless... we can tell when something is up! If I care about someone I will do ANYTHING to help them get past what is bothering them. Just say something!!!!
Well, there we go. Five traits which I find VERY attractive, some of which are very underestimated in my opinion. I would love to see some comments on what you find attractive, specifically not physical traits. I may not post over the weekend but expect a new addition to the blog on Monday.... New Music Mondays! I'll share a band I love, maybe even some words with/from them if I can manage it.
Talk to you soon, lovelies!
